Friday, July 27, 2012
Friday, January 27, 2012
Truth about Loving...
Why do people have to love? even we all know that love can only makes us
cry and feel terrible pain that only time can heal... Even if we knew how much we love that person, and we know to ourselves that we can able to give everything and anything to that person, they can also make us do the things we don't usually do, like making you cross
oceans from city to province using plane just to see her, finding her office in a big city without any idea where to start, cooked her a meal for her lunch after getting home on an evening schedule and deliver it to her office, putting an I love you sign in a freeway and has red balloons
all over the bridge saying I love you with her name on it, surprising her a chocolate, throw pillow and flowers in her office table, finding yourself creating a customized pillow that you knew she really loved, creating customized cards with her photo on it, throwing her a surprised
birthday party and sometimes you let yourself get humiliated and embarrassed etc...
Maybe some of you would never believe that someone can do this for someone
they love, or some women would never believe that there’s someone is willing to do this for you... all for the sake of love, for others it's insane, crazy and pathetic.. but for us hopeless romantic people it’s sweet and romantic... It’s our manifestation of love, those small things that we do... is the only way we knew how to show our feelings for someone we choose to love... like me... I'm so proud to shout in the universe how much I love this person that I chose to love, even we knew that at the end of the day, that she will only rejects you... because she can't love me
the way I love her...
Very frustrating isn't it? But what can we do, even you love her so much, this much, and even how good is your heart. It's not enough for this person not too hurt you... Yes, you can be exhausted by the pain it brought you, but once you love the person, you'll never get tired of
loving her.... of course you can be tired in everything that you do for her, and if you feel tired, you can pause for a while and do it again and again until you admit to yourself that you’re fed up. At least we knew to yourself that we gave our best, we took the shot and we knew we wouldn't regret everything what we’ve done for the one we really love, and at least you
already answered your WHAT IF's?, they say that nothing is really over unless you stop trying, it's true though. But sometimes we have to admit to ourselves that there are battles that you had to surrender and accept the fact that we can never have that person in our life no matter how much we want them to be.
If we show, exert our effort pushing ourselves to do extra miles only for one thing... for that only thing... to beloved by person we chose to love. From there, I can safely say that we did a good job. What can we do? As much as we cannot force that person to love us, we can't stop loving them. And what's funny? They broke our heart in a thousand tiny pieces... but each and every one of those pieces still loves them.
But even if we cried, hurt, and exhausted why do we still chose to love?
It’s because... it's the most wonderful feeling in the world and to love and beloved by the person we chose to love can complete us and I can safely say we can be happy... :)
cry and feel terrible pain that only time can heal... Even if we knew how much we love that person, and we know to ourselves that we can able to give everything and anything to that person, they can also make us do the things we don't usually do, like making you cross
oceans from city to province using plane just to see her, finding her office in a big city without any idea where to start, cooked her a meal for her lunch after getting home on an evening schedule and deliver it to her office, putting an I love you sign in a freeway and has red balloons
all over the bridge saying I love you with her name on it, surprising her a chocolate, throw pillow and flowers in her office table, finding yourself creating a customized pillow that you knew she really loved, creating customized cards with her photo on it, throwing her a surprised
birthday party and sometimes you let yourself get humiliated and embarrassed etc...
Maybe some of you would never believe that someone can do this for someone
they love, or some women would never believe that there’s someone is willing to do this for you... all for the sake of love, for others it's insane, crazy and pathetic.. but for us hopeless romantic people it’s sweet and romantic... It’s our manifestation of love, those small things that we do... is the only way we knew how to show our feelings for someone we choose to love... like me... I'm so proud to shout in the universe how much I love this person that I chose to love, even we knew that at the end of the day, that she will only rejects you... because she can't love me
the way I love her...
Very frustrating isn't it? But what can we do, even you love her so much, this much, and even how good is your heart. It's not enough for this person not too hurt you... Yes, you can be exhausted by the pain it brought you, but once you love the person, you'll never get tired of
loving her.... of course you can be tired in everything that you do for her, and if you feel tired, you can pause for a while and do it again and again until you admit to yourself that you’re fed up. At least we knew to yourself that we gave our best, we took the shot and we knew we wouldn't regret everything what we’ve done for the one we really love, and at least you
already answered your WHAT IF's?, they say that nothing is really over unless you stop trying, it's true though. But sometimes we have to admit to ourselves that there are battles that you had to surrender and accept the fact that we can never have that person in our life no matter how much we want them to be.
If we show, exert our effort pushing ourselves to do extra miles only for one thing... for that only thing... to beloved by person we chose to love. From there, I can safely say that we did a good job. What can we do? As much as we cannot force that person to love us, we can't stop loving them. And what's funny? They broke our heart in a thousand tiny pieces... but each and every one of those pieces still loves them.
But even if we cried, hurt, and exhausted why do we still chose to love?
It’s because... it's the most wonderful feeling in the world and to love and beloved by the person we chose to love can complete us and I can safely say we can be happy... :)
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